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De vuurwerk-traditie die ik ken is dat je naar buiten gaat even na middernacht, nadat je iedereen binnen een gelukkig nieuwjaar hebt gewenst. Daar wissel je gelukwensen uit met de buren, misschien schenk je de buurvrouw nog eens in uit de champagne-fles die je net hebt open gemaakt. En dan zet je drie bierflesjes met een laag water onderin op de stoep en dan ging je vuurpijlen afschieten uit het pakket dat je samen met je vader die middag bij de fietsenmaker had gekocht. (Zijn oudste dochter zit bij jouw zus in de klas, ze kennen jullie, dus hun wens je ook alvast een gelukkig nieuwjaar.)

Dat afschieten ging voorzichtig, met een sigaret die je van je vader kreeg bij wijze van lont. (Als je oudste nichtje er ook is, dan neemt die stiekem een paar trekjes tussen de bedrijven door.) Pijl neerzetten, lont buiten de flessehals. Zorgen dat er niemand in de buurt is. Dan de lont aansteken en zelf een paar passen achteruit gaan. Dan ging de pijl omhoog en dan volgde een knal en een kleurige vonkenregen.

Dat deed je dan een half uurtje. Soms waren er ook wat van die ‘potjes’, maar die mocht je pas aansteken als je wat ouder was. En dan was het op, en dan ging iedereen weer naar binnen. Soms was er nog een huis op het pleintje waar ze wat meer uitgegeven hadden en die gingen dan langer door met vuurwerk afsteken, maar dat vond je eigenlijk maar een beetje sneu voor ze: iedereen was al naar binnen.

Voor mensen met huisdieren was ook dat niet gezellig. Bij een vriendje die aan de overkant van het pleintje woonde, hadden ze zo’n grote Deense dog. Die zetten ze in de keuken, die aan de achterkant van het huis was, maar alsnog raakte het arme dier in paniek. Elk jaar vernielde hij de keukendeur in dat halve uurtje, best zielig.

Dat is de vuurwerktraditie die ik ken, en alhoewel dat niet perfect was, was dat nog te doen. Voorzichtig met vuurwerk, een leuk pakketje er doorheen draaien in een half uurtje, en dat was het dan. Maar dat is niet wat er deze dagen gebeurd in het land. Steeds meer en steeds zwaarder vuurwerk, hulpverleners die met vuurwerk bekogeld worden, al dagen van te voren zwaar geknal.

Dat is niet die gezellige vuurwerktraditie, het is gewoon niet meer te handhaven. Als je al weken van te voren hoort dat hulpverleners en handhaving zich schrap zetten, dan is er echt iets aan de hand. En ik verwacht niet dat volgend jaar er niet geknald wordt, er zullen vast types zijn die zich er niks van aantrekken. Maar het gaat om het principe: weet je nog dat het volkomen normaal was dat er in restaurants werd gerookt? Maar dat doet niemand meer, de cultuur is gewoon veranderd. En ik verwacht dat dat ook gaat gebeuren met vuurwerk: mensen die per se vuurwerk willen afsteken zullen gezien gaan worden als sneue types, met hun zinloze rebellie.


Crossposted from my blog. Comment here or at the original post.
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I never felt the need to display a flag around the house. I’m not overly patriotic, and I am not a big fan of our royal family, so I never saw the use of having a flag.

But that changed this week. There was an attack against the COC, the Dutch association for LGBTQIA+, where people were attacked and the rainbow flag was set on fire. They asked people to fly the rainbow flag today, to show their support. And I got so angry that I ordered a flag set and a progress flag just so that I could do exactly that.


LGBTQIA+ people (with trans people getting the worst attacks at the moment) are the canary in the coalmine of human rights. Fascists everywhere are undertaking a coordinated attack against this group that is socially the weakest, and a lot of people are falling for it. But trans rights are human rights. And once you are OK with violating the human rights of others, then no amount of privilege will insulate you from what will come next.

Fascism is built on exclusion, on identifying an ‘other’ to attack, and that circle will get smaller and smaller. Even if you don’t care now, you will get into the firing line sooner or later. Nazi eye colour charts were a thing, and their obsession with ‘purity’ meant that fewer and fewer people were deemed ‘acceptable’…

Solidarity with everyone whose human rights are being violated because of their sexuality is an anti-fascist stance.


The expected delivery date was Friday, which would have been nicely on time, but the package was delayed. Luckily the package was delivered just before we had to leave to the cinema (we had tickets for Makoto Shinkai’s most recent movie, Suzume) and when we returned we hung the holder and for the rest of the day we proudly flew the progress flag.

Crappy selfie of us, with the progress flag proudly flying from a flagpole mounted on the front of our house


Crossposted from my blog. Comment here or at the original post.

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Dec. 8th, 2022 10:10 pm
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It’s been a while since I did one of these. luna-puella asked me these questions:


1. You have picked up a lot of hobbies over the years. Which was your favourite?

I will have to go with tabletop RPGs here, because it’s the most long-lived and thus seems to be the best fit for me. I have been playing ttrpgs for 35 years now, and there are no signs of slowing down. My tastes have changed (a lot!) but that’s what keeps it fresh.


2. What do you think is the keyIf behind a successful marriage?

Ultimately, I think it is respect. It is in the many, very mundane, ways you can make your partner’s life better by cooperating with them. What that looks like depends on you, but for us it’s doing our share of chores, working around (or with!) our respective neuroses and supporting each other.

Of course, love is a prerequisite — but respect makes marriages last.


3. What’s your pet peeve in the design of social media sites?

I was going to protest that I haven’t really used all that many social media sites, but then I realized that I have been using systems that would be considered social media today, even before the term ‘social media’ existed…

If we’re talking about interface design, then my requirements are simple: I want the content I am interested in, delivered in a constant stream. So I want smooth scrolling by keyboard, something that the web interface of Mastodon has a bit of trouble with, for instance. If you interact with a toot (favouriting or boosting, for instance), then that toot is ‘selected’ and the arrow down selects the next one. Which is fine, but on my little 10″ laptop not every toot fits on the screen in one go, and it is annoying to have to click outside of the list of toots in order to be able to scroll with the arrow keys again.

If we’re talking about the algorithmic design (which content the site is delivering), then I think it is safe to say that corporate-owned social media is a blight upon mankind and must be completely eradicated. It was a very bad idea to leave our public discourse in the hands of a privately-owned company.


4. If you were absolute king for a day (not encumbered by democratic legislative processes), what law would you push through?

Universal Basic Income. I can’t think of a single thing that would improve the lives of… basically everyone more than UBI.

Maybe a 100% tax on anything over 1 billion (or maybe even 100 million) could be a part of that? There’s enough money, it’s just not distributed in a way that maximizes its effects.


5. If you could pass on one recommendation (book, movie, life lesson), what would it be?

World Peace Is Possible.

There’s nothing magical about world peace: if everyone stopped fighting, we could achieve world peace within an hour! The trick is, then, to create the circumstances in which people do not fight, and everyone, every day, can make choices that bring us closer to world peace. But for that to happen, people need to realise that world peace is achievable and desirable — and now you know, so now you can start making those choices.

(Example: I work in Enterprise Content Management, in order to bring world peace closer. Because things like agreements and contracts are written down and stored in ECM systems, and having that information available and trackable reduces the number of conflicts people have about whatever was agreed upon — thereby reducing the number of reasons for people to fight. Is it a stretch? Perhaps. But it’s true, if you think about it. And everyone can make choices like that, every day.)


Thank you for the thoughtful questions, luna-puella! And if any of you want to play too, comment and I’ll give you five questions to answer!


Crossposted from my blog. Comment here or at the original post.

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